Most repeated commandment!

“ It is important that we do feel safe in prayer. It is one of Father in Heaven's most potent and early Gifts to ALL His children. Satan does try everything to get us not to pray. You remember my analogy of prayer being like mailing a letter. It is a federal offense to tamper with the mail. When we pray using HF's name at the beginning, it is like addressing an envelope. When we close in JC's name it is like sealing it up & stamping it. It is against God's laws to be hurt by prayer. We are only blessed through prayer” .-Gaylinn’72 email today.  -SATURDAY 3/25/17 Hey Brandon, I just had them hand cancel your last stamp at the PO. That is two days in a row I sent you a postcard. Remember how I tell you to put a check mark to/at how far you get so you know where to continue reading the next time? Well don’t feel pressure. Save them for gloomy times when you need to explore/ adventure/ expand into a world different than your own! @ As I prayed to discover why I was feeling so grumpy after FS yesterday I realized it might be because I had thought you might not be reading my postcards and I was doing them for nothing. Wasted. What a sad thought. It had really affected me. Please tell me how to keep you happy with your mail. If you feel overloaded and can’t waste your time then tell me. I heard from you twice last summer but that is not enough to reassure me. This is a huge investment of time for me. And I know you do not feel worthy of it. But that is not the question. You don’t need to feel worthy, you only need to feel appreciative, grateful, enjoyment, expanded, interested, entertained, uplifted, spiritually nourished, knowledged, loved, or considered by what I write. If that is happening then f a n t a s t i c ! If you feel to any degree overwhelmed, overloaded, bored let me know. Don’t try to keep from hurting my feelings. I have children who don’t communicate. I can live with that. But if they don’t like hearing from me then I can save my breath. @ Yesterday I wrote you how some years ago Camille left me insecure and questioning about my local church leaders because of her stories. I did not resolve that issue in your postcard. You may remember that my brother Adrian helped me understand that those stories are evidence of her abuse and not of what really is. So my fragile trust in local church leaders and even society at large was increased after that. People are inherently good. Addictions and so on may bring out the dishonesty and unkindness but inside these are those who chose to follow Christ and take the chance and trust in him in the premortal existence. These bodies are our glory. They are our reward for daring to trust JC & HF. We love them and they love us. So we can’t lose. All we experience will be for our gain and benefit. Now there may be one in a million who gain the Savior’s face and then deny and defy. They will not benefit. They will have power even over Satan because they have bodies and he does not. They will be sons of Perdition and Satan is Perdition. So what are our chances of being that one in a million? Especially if we don’t want to! Zero. Our chances are zero. Because we will not deny and defy nor will we see his face and know him in this life. So we are safe. We get to choose how much glory we can handle in the next life. Telestial: We like to murder and steal and deceive. Terrestrial: We don’t like to murder, steal and deceive. Celestial: We love what God loves. We have learned to be like him. Exaltation: We are sealed as families and live true to those covenants. @ That doesn’t sound too hard does it? @ Guess what the most often repeated commandment is in the scriptures? _____ Yep I expect you to guess! As I told you I was appalled that Hope would declare that JC had tons of friends in opposition to black Mary having said he was the most persecuted of any man who ever lived on the earth. Remember when Christ asked his apostles, Will you go away too? They were his twelve loyal supporters who he waited a year of his 3 year ministry before choosing/ to choose. We only have 3 months of his ministry accounted for. In sadness and rejection he asked, will ye go away also? Those apostles never understood he was going to be crucified and resurrected. It was not until after the fact that they believed. Nevertheless, he loved them and they loved him. Can you keep from loving someone who loves you? If it is a girl, then yes you can. But that is not the Savior’s love. The love between girls and boys is not the Savior’s love. His love is deeper. His love is charity. His love is nurturing. His love is all encompassing.  Have you ever imagined his loving arms around you and the pure safety and confidence and wholeness he offers? No offense. No standoffishness, no rejection, no holding back, just pure acceptance and encouragement. Beautiful isn’t it. Are we kept from feeling that?  Nope. Satan would keep us from feeling that. But not God. Come unto me. My yoke is easy and my burden is light. Let Brandon and I be part of your workforce, your witnesses, your helpers, God. We love you and appreciate you and trust you. Thank you for your words, scriptures, testimonies, witnesses, prophecies, guiding commandments, love, care, hope, light and life. Thank you for your plan. Thank you for letting us know your plan in this last dispensation of the fullness of times of the earth. {As soon as we learn [and understand] the true relationship in which we stand toward God (namely, God is our Father, and we are his children), then at once prayer becomes natural and instinctive on our part. Many of the so-called difficulties about prayer arise from forgetting this relationship (Bible Dictionary: Prayer, p. 752). } Thank heavens we know that the wickedness all around us is expected! If it were not, we would lose hope. @ A minute ago I left a blank for you to answer a question. _____ This next thing is going to sound weird but cool. Since Hope had issues with “praying aloud or Satan could hear”, I decided to research it again. I went through 5 pages of Google. No luck from lds sources. I tried lds.org. No luck. I think it has been removed. I told you that yesterday. But what an opportunity to learn about what prayer is! I am going to print off a 45 minute devotional and comment and share it with them. I started that night. Here is the first column: The Power of Personal Prayer\Devotional Brigham Young University-Hawaii\May 17, 2011\Elder Kevin W. Pearson\First Quorum of the Seventy\I humbly invite the Holy Ghost to be with us as we consider the principle of personal prayer.  My objective is to help each of us understand this powerful principle and the reality that God really does hear and answer our prayers.\I wish to state at the outset of our discussion that I have absolute evidence in my own life that God is our loving Heavenly Father and does in fact hear and answer our prayers.  I have personal knowledge that this is true.  I am a witness of this reality.  I will therefore speak to you from personal knowledge and experience.\The divine invitation to pray unto the Father in the name of Christ is the single most mentioned commandment in all recorded scripture and is the most basic form of personal worship.  Yet, many of us struggle in our attempts to make personal prayer meaningful and revelatory. \How is it possible that Latter-day Saints, of all people, struggle so much with something so basic and fundamental?  I am convinced that personal prayer is one of the most significant challenges facing members of the Church, particularly youth and young adults.  Because they struggle with prayer, they struggle spiritually. \I have always found the words of Nephi very helpful:Angels speak by the power of the Holy Ghost; wherefore, they speak the words of Christ.  Wherefore, I said unto you, feast upon the words of Christ; for behold, the words of Christ will tell you all things what ye should do.\Wherefore, now after I have spoken these words, if ye cannot understand them it will be because ye ask not, neither do ye knock; wherefore, ye are not brought into the light, but must perish in the dark.\For behold, again I say unto you that if ye will enter in by the way, and receive the Holy Ghost, it will show unto you all things what ye should do. . . .\. . . It grieveth me that I must speak concerning this thing.  For if ye would hearken unto the Spirit which teacheth a man to pray ye would know that ye must pray; for the evil spirit teacheth not a man to pray, but teacheth him that he must not pray.\But behold, I say unto you that ye must pray always, and not faint; that ye must not perform any thing unto the Lord save in the first place ye shall pray unto the Father in the name of Christ, that he will consecrate thy performance unto thee, that thy performance may be for the welfare of thy soul. (2 Nephi 32:3-5, 8-9.)\I bear solemn testimony to the truth of that scripture.  This is a divine pattern.  If you will study the scriptures every day, every day, every day, the Savior's teachings will tell you all things what ye should do. You will have a greater measure of the influence of the Holy Ghost.   The Holy Ghost will show you all things what ye should do.  President Packer often teaches that the Holy Ghost will never allow us to make a mistake without first warning us.  It will always teach us that we must pray.   So, when life gets dark and dreary, don 't forget to pray. ( Did You Think to Pray? Hymns #140.)\Let 's explore the principle of prayer by addressing three basic questions: What is the principle of personal prayer?\Why is personal prayer essential?\How can we make our personal prayers more effective and meaningful?\1-What is the principle of personal prayer?\Soon after Adam and Eve departed the Garden of Eden, they were commanded by an angel to do all that thou doest in the name of the Son, and thou shalt repent and call upon God in the name of the Son forevermore  (Moses 5:8).  Since that time, men have been commanded to follow this divine pattern.\To pray is to speak with God, the Eternal Father of our spirits, not at Him but with Him.@@ bps, pretty cool already isn’t it? So were you right? Did you know? Ans: single most mentioned commandment - I guess that is a good reason to learn more about it isn’t it? @@2nd ColumnTo pray is to speak with God, the Eternal Father of our spirits, not at Him but with Him. He loves each of us unconditionally and is full of mercy and perfect understanding. He knows everything about us. He knows what we need, even when we can only see what we want. He has infinite power and capacity to sustain and guide us. He is always willing to forgive us and to help us in all things, both temporal and spiritual. \We can speak with Him vocally or by forming thoughts and expressions in our minds and hearts. Personal prayers should be solemn, sacred expressions of praise and gratitude; heartfelt petitions for specific needs and desires; humble, contrite confessions and requests for cleansing forgiveness; pleadings for comfort, direction, and revelation. These expressions often cause us to pour out our very souls to our loving Heavenly Father.\Prayer is often a brief communication, but it can be an open and continuous dialog all throughout the day and night. Yea, and when you do not cry unto the Lord, let your hearts be full, drawn out in prayer unto him continually for your welfare, and also for the welfare of those who are around you (Alma 34:27). This type of continuous prayer has been, and continues to be, the pattern for revelation in my personal life and ministry. This is beautifully captured by the hymn, I Need Thee Every Hour (Hymns, #98).\I need thee ev'ry hour,\Most gracious Lord.\No tender voice like thine\Can peace afford.\I need thee, oh, I need thee;\Ev'ry hour I need thee!\Oh, bless me now, my Savior;\I come to thee!\ Prayer is the act by which the will of the Father and the will of the child are brought into correspondence with each other. The object of prayer is not to change the will of God, but to secure for ourselves and for others blessings that God is already willing to grant, but that are made conditional on our asking for them (Bible Dictionary: Prayer, p. 752-753).\Prayer is not a negotiation process. It is an alignment process. We don 't move God to our point of view. Prayer is less about changing our circumstances and more about changing us. It is about seeking His will and asking for His help to do what we need to do. When we align our will with Heavenly Father 's will, answers and spiritual power will flow more freely. Following this pattern allows us to pray with faith.\The Savior repeatedly commanded that we must pray unto the Father in his name. What does it mean to pray in the name of Christ?\ We pray in Christ's name when our mind is the mind of Christ, and our wishes the wishes of Christ, when his words abide in us. We then ask for things it is possible for God to grant. Many prayers remain unanswered because they are not in Christ's name at all; they in no way represent his mind, but spring out of the selfishness of man's heart (Bible Dictionary: Prayer, p. 753). 3rd Column Prayers that follow this pattern represent vain hope not faith.\Our personal prayers are a barometer of our spiritual strength and an indicator of our spiritual wellbeing. I have learned as a father, priesthood leader, and mission president that listening carefully to another's prayers can reveal much about their relationship with God.\What would listening to your personal prayers reveal about you and your relationship with Heavenly Father? When was the last time you listened carefully to your own personal prayers to assess your own spiritual wellbeing? Something to think about.\2-Why is personal prayer essential?\In the divine plan of our Heavenly Father, physical and spiritual separation from His presence are absolutely necessary. Here on earth, we are fully exposed to the consequences of our own choices and to the choices of others. We are also physically exposed to the laws and forces of nature inherent to our mortal existence. We are spiritually exposed to the power of Satan and the influence he exerts through others. All these are purposeful and necessary elements and conditions in the Father's plan.\It is our Heavenly Father 's will that these human conditions in mortality be bridged by prayer. However, our mortal existence is neither random cosmic chaos. The poet Emily Dickinson wrote:This world is not conclusion;\A sequel stands beyond,\Invisible, as music,\But positive, as sound.\Prayer is an essential and enabling spiritual link between God and man. Without prayer, there is no possible return to the Father. Without prayer, repentance, forgiveness and the cleansing power of the Atonement are unattainable. Without prayer, sufficient faith to understand and keep the commandments is impossible. Without prayer, the necessary spiritual power to avoid temptation and overcome trials and adversity would be unavailable. With the power of personal prayer, all things are possible. That is the divine pattern.\Prayers enable personal revelation and spiritual gifts through the Holy Ghost. It is the spiritual channel made available to all of God's children giving us constant access to our Eternal Father, His Beloved Son, and the Holy Ghost. So, when life gets dark and dreary, don 't forget to pray. ( Did You Think to Pray? Hymns #140.)\Prayer is powerful and compelling evidence of the reality of God the Eternal Father. As soon as we learn [and understand] the true relationship in which we stand toward God (namely, God is our Father, and we are his children), then at once prayer becomes natural and instinctive on our part. Many of the so-called difficulties about prayer arise from forgetting this relationship (Bible Dictionary: Prayer, p. 752). \Understanding our divine identity and the true nature of God are indispensable to powerful personal prayer. Personal prayer is indispensable to understanding God and our divine identity. I will forever be grateful for Joseph Smith. Without the revealed knowledge and understanding of the nature of God from the First Vision, the Book of Mormon, and the Doctrine and Covenants, I never could have learned the power of personal prayer. 4th Column Without prayer, I never could have received a testimony of the Restored Gospel, the Book of Mormon, and the Prophet Joseph Smith. Nor would I understand my own divine identity.\3-How can we make our personal prayers more effective and meaningful?\President Packer often teaches that, True doctrine understood changes attitudes and behavior. What aspect of personal prayer, if better understood, would help your personal prayers become more meaningful and revelatory?\We have already identified several obstacles that prevent us from having meaningful personal prayer: Misunderstanding or sometimes forgetting our divine identity and the true nature of our Eternal Father in Heaven.\ Misunderstanding the object of prayer and attempting to use it to change Heavenly Father 's will or to negotiate what we want.\Not correctly praying in the name of the Savior but rather out of selfish and self-centered desires.\May I suggest three other obstacles: a-Physical, mental, and emotional fatigue.\b-Disobedience, personal unworthiness, and pride.\c-Lack of focus and purpose.\ a-Physical, mental, and emotional fatigue: Often our personal prayers take place first thing in the morning before we are fully awake and alert or late at night when we are too tired to pray effectively. Our physical, mental, and emotional fatigue can prevent us from meaningful prayer. Speaking at God is not the same as speaking with Him. \Meaningful prayer requires effort. It is spiritual work preceded by mental and spiritual preparation. If we don 't take the time to humble ourselves and carefully consider that we are about to call upon God the Eternal Father in the name of Christ, we will miss the very essence of the divine pattern established to bless us.\May I suggest finding a time and place where you can carefully ponder your life and your needs. Reflect on your divine identity and relationship to God. Strive to visualize Heavenly Father as you prepare to speak with Him. Think of the Savior in whose name you will be praying. Doing so will help you focus and prepare to pray with a humble and grateful heart.\Schedule sufficient time to carefully and humbly communicate the deepest desires of your heart with Heavenly Father. Invite the Holy Ghost to help you know what to pray for. Praying vocally helps me to focus my prayers and to listen to myself without wandering mentally.\b-Disobedience, personal unworthiness, and pride: Let virtue garnish thy thoughts unceasingly; then shall thy confidence wax strong in the presence of God; and the doctrine of the priesthood shall distil upon thy soul as the dews from heaven.\The Holy Ghost shall be thy constant companion. (D&C 121:45-46.)\My young friends, we cannot be confident in our Heavenly Father 's presence if we are not morally clean. Pornography, sexual transgressions, entertainment of any kind that mocks virtue, promotes immorality, destroys our confidence in prayer, and prevents us from spiritual promptings. Remember, however, Satan will be the only one who tells you that you cannot or should not pray. The Holy Ghost always encourages us to pray, even if we are struggling with obedience and personal worthiness.\ c-Lack of focus and purpose: Personal prayer is meant to be a revelatory process. 5th Column We need to be able to receive answers and knowledge through our prayers. One reason we may not feel we are getting answers is because we are not asking appropriate questions. Revelation generally comes in response to a question. The process of revelation requires us to search the scriptures, ponder them, and apply them to our lives. As we do so, the Holy Ghost helps us form inspired questions. \Prayer is a channel for addressing questions to Heavenly Father. Through the Holy Ghost, our minds are enlightened with knowledge, understanding, and promptings. These feelings and impressions are also confirmed in our hearts. Often answers come in the form of peace or a settling feeling of comfort and clarity. When we need to be warned, the Holy Ghost will leave us feeling unsettled, uncomfortable, unsure, and unclear. This is also an answer and is often referred to as a stupor of thought. \Prayer is essential to the process of revelation. Inspired questions bring greater focus, purpose, and meaning to our prayers. If you want to receive more personal revelation through your prayers, you may want to think about what questions you are asking.\May I share a personal experience that helped me learn many of these principles. Nearly nineteen years ago, our fifth son Benjamin was born. The day he was born, my parents left to begin serving a mission in Oakland, California. They left somewhat reluctantly because they had been called to serve as a mission office couple. Of all the possible assignments for missionary couples, they were not the least bit interested in working in a mission office. But they decided to accept the call and serve.\My professional career was exciting and promising. I was working for a growing, dynamic company. I had an important calling in our ward. Life was challenging and exciting. I was on top of my little world. Three months later, the world changed abruptly. \My wife had been increasingly concerned about Benjamin 's eyes. She sensed that something wasn't right. On Thanksgiving Day, we became alarmed to discover Benjamin did not appear to have sight in one eye. We immediately consulted a close friend and retinal specialist in our ward. He confirmed our concerns and three days later diagnosed Benjamin 's condition as retinal blastoma, a rare form of cancer of the eye. The news was devastating. \Over the next ten days, a team of people helped us canvas the entire world to identify and locate the most preeminent medical experts on this rare condition. We found two, one of which was located in San Francisco, California. It became clear why my parents had been called to serve a mission in nearby Oakland. They would be close by to help in the difficult months ahead. My Heavenly Father knew that long before I did.\A week later, Benjamin was to have the first of many surgical treatments. Prior to the operation we met with the surgeon. I explained to him that we believed in the power of prayer. I told him about priesthood blessings and that Benjamin has been blessed that he would be healed. With complete confidence, I told the doctor we believed that when he got into the operation he would find that Benjamin 's eye would be healed and not need to be removed. 6th Column Our entire family and many ward members were fasting and praying for our son, and we had great faith.\His reply stunned me. Leaning forward, he defiantly responded: Mr. Pearson, I am a surgeon and an expert on your son's condition. I do not operate on faith or prayers or any of your other religious practices. When I get into the operating room, I am going to confirm that your son needs to have his eye removed. And when I do, we are either going to immediately move forward and take it out or we are not going in at all. But there isn't going to be any more prayers or any more waiting around for miracles. Do you understand me? \An hour later, he returned to the nursing station and confirmed that Benjamin's eye had been destroyed by the tumor cells and that his other eye also had several serious tumors that needed immediate treatment. This was the worst possible scenario. We were devastated. I was speechless. He returned to the operating room, and we returned to my anxious parents in the waiting area. Completely overcome with grief and disbelief, I walked out of the hospital into the dark damp San Francisco morning and began to walk and weep bitterly.\I had done everything I had been taught to do. We had prayed and received a strong impression to select this doctor. We had fasted and prayed and felt certain that our infant son would be healed through faith and through the power of the priesthood. The outcome could not have been worse. There had been no blessing, and clearly the Lord had not intervened. Our faith it seems had been no more than vain hope. My faith was shattered. I began to question everything I had ever believed. As I walked, I felt betrayed and angry. I was overcome with pain.\I am not proud of the conversation I had with Heavenly Father as I walked and wept that morning. After a time, I got a hold of myself emotionally. I remember the words of a children's Primary song coming into my mind. Heavenly Father, are you really there? And do you hear and answer every child's prayer? Because you clearly haven't been listening to mine or maybe you just don't really care about me and my son. (A Child's Prayer, Children's Songbook, #12.)\In that moment, a tender mercy came. In my mind and heart, I felt these words: Kevin, he is my son too. The clarity of the prompting was unmistakable. I realized in that moment that I had not understood the purpose of prayer at all. I had assumed that, just because I had a righteous cause, I could use the priesthood and fasting and prayer to change the will of God.\For the first time in my life, I fully realized that I was not in charge. I knew that I needed to submit to Heavenly Father 's will. I couldn't have what I wanted when and how I wanted it just because I was keeping the commandments. The purpose of prayer was not to tell Heavenly Father what to do, rather to find out what He would have me do and learn. I needed to align my will with His.\That moment has made a deep and profound impact on my life. We would face another six years of serious challenges as we battled our little son 's condition to save his other eye and his life. 7th Column But I now knew that Heavenly Father was aware and in charge. And no matter how things ultimately worked out, He had heard and answered my prayer. Of that there was no longer any doubt.\My young brothers and sisters, I leave you with my witness that God is our loving Heavenly Father. I have come to know through this experience and countless others since that He does in fact hear and answer every child's prayer. I have learned that there is great power in personal prayer. I have learned to accept answers that are contrary to what I want, trusting that Heavenly Father knows what I need. I have learned that my children are His children and He loves them more than I possibly can. Through prayer, I have received forgiveness and comfort, direction and revelation.\I plead with you to pray always and to be believing. As you continue to learn and understand the divine principle of personal prayer as the Savior taught it, prayer will become a source of great spiritual power and revelation in your life. Of this I bear personal witness, in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.~ ~ V~Dear Hope n Mary, Thurs.3/24/17 Were you offended by me tonight? I apologize. I had no intention of offending you. {synonyms: intent, intentionality, deliberateness, design, calculation, meaning; premeditation, forethought, preplanning; malice aforethought\"he managed, without intention, to upset me"} It is now after midnight: 12:42am and our lesson/interaction stimulated me. [@ or \= new paragraph. I can't stand wasting space.] Let me start by saying I admire those who attend Thursday night BoM class. WE come to learn and be spiritually uplifted. It blesses my life. @ My parents were serious criminals, child abusers and deceivers. They used the Church as a facade for the nefarious deeds. I have 6 siblings. It has been extremely difficult for us to stay in the church our parents defiled. I have two brothers that are atheist and 3 sisters and one brother who super struggle with a HF that would allow what He allowed in our family. @ So deceit/ DECEIT has been a bugaboo for me my whole adult life. You would not believe how 5/10 virgins/ saints have been deceived! I have been one of those deceived ones at times. Ouch. So instead of hashing over common talks and scriptures about prayer let's try a new one. @ General Conference talks are shorter than devotional addresses. So there can be lots more in a devotional address. This one was listed when I searched:”Satan hear our prayers” on lds.org.\First I googled: “Don't pray aloud. Satan may hear our prayer.” but nothing from LDS came up in the first 5 pages of hits.\Second I went to lds.org. I heard a talk something in the 90's about this so I researched it last year. It had bothered me for years. What was the truth? The reason I could say that it is a false concept is because I have had to prove it to myself. @This talk is 6.5 columns long. I am going to comment at the end of each column and before you read my comments I would invite you to do the same. That way we can share what we learn together. Before we start how would would you answer these three questions? 1What is the principle of personal prayer?\2 Why is personal prayer essential?\3 How can we make our personal prayers more effective and meaningful?\1st Column: p-The divine invitation to pray unto the Father in the name of Christ is the single most mentioned commandment in all recorded scripture 2nd Column: (Moses 5:8)- not in bible.\ p-Personal prayers should be solemn- Mine are often NOT. I laugh and even wave hello at times.\ p-These expressions often cause us to pour out our very souls-this I do do.\ p-it can be an open and continuous dialog all throughout the day and night-I haven't tried this one yet.\p-This type of continuous prayer has been, and continues to be, the pattern for revelation in my personal life and ministry. -cool, what a good man!\It is an alignment process.- I think I understand this.\Following this pattern allows us to pray with faith. Helaman's sons Nephi and Lehi were told this.\ p-when our mind is the mind of Christ-deep stuff!\p-Many prayers remain unanswered because they are not in Christ's name at all; they in no way represent his mind, but spring out of the selfishness of man's heart- how dare he! 3rd Column:p-listening carefully to another's prayers can reveal much about their relationship with God.-love it, cool idea!\[2 Why is personal prayer essential?v- it is how we worship and show HF we love and follow him. It helps us know what we want and are working for.\3 How can we make our personal prayers more effective and meaningful? v-Write them down and record what portions are answered.] p-Here on earth, we are fully exposed to the consequences of our own choices and to the choices of others-v powerful! That paragraph was absolutely marvelous in my opinion! p-However, our mortal existence is neither random cosmic chaos.-v I had to look this up and see if that is really what he said. It is. I'm confused by it. ED-But positive, as sound.-v you can't see sound but it is still there! p-Without prayer, there is no possible return to the Father.- pointed! p-Without prayer, sufficient faith to understand and keep the commandments is impossible. -more pointed! p- made available to all of God's children- Mary prayed even before she was a member of the church. It still worked. p-It is the spiritual channel made available to all of God's children giving us constant access to our Eternal Father, His Beloved Son, and the Holy Ghost. V-so if I want the promise of the sacrament prayers I have to pray first? Yep! That they may always have his spirit to be with them. p-Prayer is powerful and compelling evidence of the reality of God the Eternal Father. v- it really is! p-. . .forgetting this relationship v- I had to send that paragraph to bps, my Purgatory Correctional Facility pen pal. 4th Column: p-Often our personal prayers take place first thing in the morning before we are fully awake and alert or late at night when we are too tired to pray effectively. v-true. So don't make those your only prayers! p- suggest finding a time and place where you can carefully ponder your life and your needs v-Before I start reading is good for me. No hurry, no rush, pressures are done, I am about to relax. I am comfortable and laying on my bed. P-Praying vocally helps me to focus my prayers and to listen to myself without wandering mentally.-key. p- Pornography, sexual transgressions, entertainment of any kind that mocks virtue, promotes immorality, destroys our confidence in prayer, and prevents us from spiritual promptings. Remember, however, Satan will be the only one who tells you that you cannot or should not pray. V-can you watch a show that uses “God” or “oh my God” as an exclamation? In Spanish they say “Dios mio”. Oops! 5th Column: p- Personal prayer is meant to be a revelatory process. We need to be able to receive answers and knowledge through our prayers v- have you disagreed with anything he has said so far? I disagree with this one. It is a revelatory process only occasionally for me!!! p-When we need to be warned, the Holy Ghost will leave us feeling unsettled, uncomfortable, unsure, and unclear. This is also an answer and is often referred to as a stupor of thought. V-I feel this regularly. Probably daily! But I have been emotionally damaged, traumatized as a child. As I left FamilySearch yesterday I was feeling grumpy. I started praying and reliving and rethinking what had gone on. I prayed as I drove home. I prayed again before I started reading. I arrived at the source. I was worried my efforts were being wasted. That was not the HG. That was my personal internal damage, my red button, my trigger from the past that had risen to haunt me again. p- May I share a personal experience that helped me learn many of these principles. V-he learned many prayer principles from one, ONE personal experience. You can bet it was a weighty experience! p- not the least bit interested-candid! p-I was on top of my little world.-cute and humble. p-canvas the entire world p- I told him about priesthood blessings-tender. 6th Column: p-We were devastated. I was speechless. v- the suspense is unbearable! p-My faith was shattered. p-Kevin, he is my son too. V-tears p-For the first time in my life, I fully realized that I was not in charge. I knew that I needed to submit to Heavenly Father 's will. v- darn, I hate how that works! Tease. p-I couldn't have what I wanted when and how I wanted it just because I was keeping the commandments. v- spoiled child syndrome becomes obvious when he puts it that way. :) 7th Column: p-But I now knew that Heavenly Father was aware and in charge. p-And no matter how things ultimately worked out, He had heard and answered my prayer. p- experience and countless others v-over and over these truths play out. p-I have learned to accept answers that are contrary to what I want, trusting that Heavenly Father knows what I need. I have learned that my children are His children and He loves them more than I possibly can. V-conclusion: That was as rewarding as I can imagine! Thank you for this opportunity. God bless you. Vern @[update 4/5/17 Wednesday, So I made 6 copies for my class and they didn't show up! Luckily, Janice visited afterwards and when the topic turned to Mary and Hope I gave her one. So one down 5 to go.]

SUNDAY, Randalin Hilton was my organist today. She arrived and wanted to change the opening hymn. She said this new one is particularly difficult to play. That worked perfectly fine for me. I love singing Alleluia and you get to sing it 5 times for each of the 4 verses. It has copyright restrictions and can’t be viewed from our lds hymnal on the internet. I had to go elsewhere to copy the lyrics. I wasn’t planning on posting them but since they were not available I decided they are more precious than I thought! The 4th verse captured me today. Springtime!

#62 All creatures of our God and King
Lift up your voice and with us sing,
Alleluia! Alleluia!
Thou burning sun with golden beam,
Thou silver moon with softer gleam!

Refrain

O praise Him! O praise Him!
Alleluia! Alleluia! Alleluia!

Thou rushing wind that art so strong
Ye clouds that sail in Heaven along,
O praise Him! Alleluia!
Thou rising moon, in praise rejoice,
Ye lights of evening, find a voice!

Refrain

Thou flowing water, pure and clear,
Make music for thy Lord to hear,
O praise Him! Alleluia!
Thou fire so masterful and bright,
That givest man both warmth and light.

Refrain

Dear mother earth, who day by day
Unfoldest blessings on our way,
O praise Him! Alleluia!
The flowers and fruits that in thee grow,
Let them His glory also show.

Competition

 SUNDAY3/19/17 T/F There is no competition between individuals in heaven.@@ TedF and HalD got so heated about that statement after HPG today. Vern says that is true. They say it is false. It took me years to internalize that concept when Mark Clayton was trying to help me understand it and apply it. It makes life and people so much more loveable to believe I am not competing with anyone. Just myself. Just myself to improve and make celestial. Learn how to love the celestial and find joy in it while in this life. They would not be convinced and neither would I. :) “I don’t want to hear it, I want to see it in writing.”-v I had to repeat that a couple of times. We’ll see if they got their dander up to actually find something and write it/print it. When Hal said Heavenly Father is trying to become like his Heavenly Father it went to a whole new dimension. Sorry that is out of my league. This dimension of earth life and our galaxy and universe is enough for me! He asked if I believed in eternal progress? I asked if God was omniscient? How can he be omniscient if he is still gaining knowledge? My BoM class has done a good job of recementing that concept in my understanding. HalD- If there were no competition it would be communism in heaven. @ So what do I believe and why? 1- Competition is only with ourselves. To make ourselves better. 2- Everyone runs their own race and does their reasonable best. Everyone who crosses the finish line wins. When does not matter. 3- There is no progression from one kingdom to the next. Three kingdoms: Celestial, Terrestrial, Telestial. 4- To reach the highest degree of the Celestial kingdom you must be married. 5- Heavenly father loves all his children endlessly. 6- God does have unconditional love but it does not mean what some people think it means. We still have to qualify to progress. We have to want/ desire and try until we succeed, but we can have his help. :) 7-I am unique. My spirit, my intelligence, is unique. I am good. I like and enjoy goodness. 8- I have not rebelled against God and I will not rebel against God. If I never rebel and live the gospel of JC and learn all truth I will enter the celestial kingdom. Hopefully accompanied. @@http://eom.byu.edu/index.php/Eternal_Progression

Eternal Progression Author: Adams, Lisa Ramsey @The principle of eternal progression cannot be precisely defined or comprehended, yet it is fundamental to the LDS worldview. The phrase "eternal progression" first occurs in the discourses of Brigham Young. It embodies many concepts taught by Joseph Smith, especially in his king follett discourse. It is based on the proposition that "there is no such thing as principle, power, wisdom, knowledge, life, position, or anything that can be imagined, that remains stationary-they must increase or decrease" [Can’t they increase by including more souls that follow?-v](Young, JD 1:350). @Progression takes many forms. In one sense, eternal progression refers to everything that people learn and experience by their choices as they progress from premortal life, to mortality, to postmortal spirit life, and to a resurrected state in the presence of God. Personal progression is possible in each of these states, but not the same kind of progression. Progression apparently occurred in the premortal life, for most spirits there chose to follow Christ and some were noble and great, while others chose to follow Lucifer. Entering mortality affords opportunities for further progression. Obtaining a physical body is a crucial step, enabling a person to experience physical sensations of all kinds and to progress in knowledge and understanding, all of which will rise with the person in the Resurrection (D&C 130:18). Brigham Young taught that even in mortality, "We are in eternity" (JD 10:22), and the object of this existence is "to learn to enjoy more, and to increase in knowledge and experience" (JD 14:228). "When we have learned to live according to the full value of the life we now possess, we are prepared for further advancement in the scale of eternal progression-for a more glorious and exalted sphere" (JD 9:168). @Life is never static. "One must progress or retrograde. One cannot stand still. Activity is the law of growth, and growth, progress, is the law of life" (A. Bowen, in Christ's Ideals for Living, O. Tanner, ed., Salt Lake City, 1980, p. 368). A person's attitude about ""eternal progression' will largely determine his philosophy of life…exalting, increasing, expanding and extending broader and broader until we can know as we are known, see as we are seen" (Young, JD 16:165). [v-Static. New concept. But how can being totally honest grow and progress? I don’t understand.]

@At the Resurrection and Judgment, people will be assigned a degree of glory. Further progress is believed possible within each degree. Marriage and family life, however, continue only in the Celestial Kingdom, allowing "eternal increase" through having spirit children (see Eternal Lives, Eternal Increase). "All this and more that cannot enter into our hearts to conceive is promised to the faithful, and are but so many stages in that ceaseless progression of eternal lives" (Young, JD 10:5). @No official Church teaching attempts to specify all the ways in which God progresses in his exalted spheres; "there is no end to [His] works, neither to [His] words" (Moses 1:38). God's glory and power are enhanced as his children progress in glory and power (see Moses 1:39; Young, JD 10:5)[This is the concept I have espoused.-v]. Ideas have been advanced to explain how God might progress in knowledge and still be perfect and know all things (see Foreknowledge of God; Omnipotent God; Omnipresence of God; Omniscience of God).[This was my big issue with HalD.-v] @The concept of eternal progression is a salient feature of the gospel of Jesus Christ, readily distinguishable from traditional Christian theology. The philosophical views of the Middle Ages were basically incompatible with such a concept, and the idea of progress that emerged in the eighteenth-century Enlightenment was that of social evolution (Bury, The Idea of Progress, London, 1932). The traditional Christian view has held that those in heaven enter "a state of eternal, inactive joy. In the presence of God they would worship him and sing praises to him eternally, but nothing more" (Widtsoe, p. 142). Latter-day Saints, however, constantly seek personal and righteous improvement not only by establishing Zion in this world, but by anticipating the continuation of progression eternally. BibliographyWidtsoe, John A. "Is Progress Eternal or Is There Progress in Heaven?" IE 54 (Mar. 1951):142; see also Evidences and Reconciliations, pp. 179-85, Salt Lake City, 1960.LISA RAMSEY ADAMS

March 12 12:41 PM Dear home teachees,

Gardine's have four girls starting at 15 years old. Joni miscarried last time. They live in Don Sadler's old house. He is an online attorney. Both Samuel Jardine was born last week!

Ken Perkins is still retiring. :-)

Funniest moment: Sunday school teacher Jesse said those of you who know me know I live the maxim quote never speak to words 11 will do quote. Or none.

Jesse's wife is out of town and he texted her that they made it to church early. They have five little boys! It's his wife asked how did you do it? Jesse responded we didn't have to wait for you. Vern – yikes!

Spiritual insight for me: 10 sections speak of the field as being white and ready to harvest. Jesse – what happens to the right crop if it is left unharvested?

Wasted…

Alex Gardine dared to send the book of Mormon to a business friend in Oklahoma last November. Yay!

March 19 2:42 PM Hey home teachees!

Dear absentee brothers,

I love you. I think you are wonderful.

I called Charlie on his cruise last week and left him multiple vmails on Sunday to report. But since I care about all six of you, why not be absolutely totally weird and share with all 6?

You need read no further if you are busy. Like I told Charlie last week this is all fluff.

Bishop joined TedF and I for choir performance and we were the whole men's section.

The HC had 30 minutes to fill today, after the choir number. He got emotional a few times and made TedF sitting next to me wipe his eyes and heave in his breathing. It was not an insensitive lecture but a touching address for most. Not me. I focussed otherwhere's today.

Lots of practical sharing in ShannonJ's SS lesson about missionary work and stakes.

Ted said he worked long on the priesthood lesson on prayer this week. Poor guy can't see to read the words of the hymns nor the lesson quotes. If it is the wrong word at least it sounds similar to the one it was supposed to be. I am proud of all the hours he puts into studying but. . .

Todd M went to the hospital to get some medicine for his heart. Jim Cox was the lone ranger of the HP.

Jim asked how many of us are indexing. Only 2 raised their hands. Next I would have liked him to ask how many attended the temple last month.

He then asked KentP how many indexing names is his goal for this week. Kent was taken aback. He wasn't expecting that question and wasn't sure he wanted to answer. He finally admitted he does 500 every 2 or 3 weeks.

He then asked me. I pulled a Sam Hales: I don't want to share my goal.

Marty Matthews had his fiancee with him today. No kids.

Anna Walker-12 spoke on gratitude. I sit behind the podium so I could watch her on her tip toes for the first minute or so, in her nervousness. She went quite fast and a bit soft.

JimC missed his assigned opening prayer in sacrament meeting. He prayed in SS and assigned himself in HP to make up for it. Bishop did a nice one in sacrament meeting.

Pat Hales accompanied the choir. She said she was nervous/ out of practice. RandalinH asked her to sub. RobynW had her slow down the intro.

TWO Hoppie boys blessed the sacrament today. I haven't noticed JoshH say the bread blessing before.

This was the 3rd week Elder Dallen Ricketts has tried to write the opening priesthood hymn on the board. He succeeded the first week. The second week it was just too long: Be Still My Soul. I invited him to only write as much as he felt he had time for this week. He did two lines. I put the hymn books on the table by the door this year so I don't have to do that. I used to like to but it gets old.

So what was the most uplifting thing about church for me today. I think it was our SS lesson. I am arriving at a new understanding: When the saints participate in the lesson what you are really getting is their testimony in one way or another. I was touched by some of those sharings. Especially Kathleen McDonald.

Quinn Carter did an announcement in SS about 2 stake youth mission opportunities, looking for families in our ward willing to help out.

Tim Gardner said there will be socializing in the park tomorrow night, whether or not we have cobbler available. Hal Demke has a son-in-law who might come and wants us to welcome him. Hal also offered to make ribs and Tim welcomed participation from the walking dead, HPs.

Hal Demke likes to tease. After the closing prayer he asked Ted about Notre Dame playing BYU and the priests or the elders praying for their team to win. I told Hal there is no competition in heaven. He and Ted totally disagreed with that! What do you think? @@MONDAY3/20 I sent that email to 10 brothers yesterday. In the original I told the 6 brothers that since they were not at church and I was Writing CharlieM hpgleader anyway, I was including them. next/Then I took off their names and tried to make it appropriate for VarloD, BruceR, EricY. The brothers that were missing this last day of Spring Break were: CharlieM, Roger Eves, Cameron Tolman, Tom Lamb, Allen H, Todd M, Duane D. I know the 7 will not be offended by being called Absentee brothers. But what about my home teachees? Oh well. If the shoe fits, wear it. @The principle of eternal progression cannot be precisely defined or comprehended, yet it is fundamental to the LDS worldview. The phrase "eternal progression" first occurs in the discourses of Brigham Young. Comment: I do not think this concept is fundamental to the LDS worldview. At least not the way HalD applies it. How do you like that phrase< cannot be precisely defined or comprehended >?  So why are we even bothering? “The concept of eternal progression is a salient feature of the gospel of Jesus Christ”, I don’t think so. I love the idea of preparing to come to this earth and preparing for the Celestial Kingdom while here and afterwards. But I am stuck with believing that God is omniscient. That HF already knows everything! I believe the only way he enlarges his kingdom and glory is in numbers. The more children he progresses the greater he is worshipped and glorified. So bps, I have not shared with you many mind benders. This is one! @ Here is a wonderful lesson. I found it while hunting omniscient. (3 Omnis: Omniscient, Omnipotent, Omnipresent) >Have students review 1 Nephi 9; Words of Mormon 1:1–7; Doctrine and Covenants 10:38–45. Ask: How did the Lord prepare more than a thousand years in advance to stop Satan’s plan to destroy the Book of Mormon?

Read the following statement by Elder Neal A. Maxwell, then a member of the Presidency of the Seventy:

“Few doctrines, save those pertaining to the reality of the existence of God, are more basic than the truth that God is omniscient [all-knowing]. ‘O how great the holiness of our God! For he knoweth all things, and there is not anything save he knows it.’ (2 Ne. 9:20.) Unfortunately, this truth is sometimes only passively assented to by individuals who avoid exploring it and coming to understand its implications. Later on, such believers sometimes have difficulty with the implications of this core doctrine—which connects with other powerful doctrines such as the foreknowledge of God, foreordination, and foreassignment. The all-loving God who shapes our individual growing and sanctifying experiences—and then sees us through them—could not do so if He were not omniscient” (All These Things Shall Give Thee Experience [1979], 6).

Explain that Joseph Smith learned many valuable lessons from his experience with the lost 116 pages. Divide the class into two groups. Have one group read Doctrine and Covenants 3:1–10 and the other group verses 11–20. Have both groups look for verses that show the principles Joseph Smith learned from this experience, and suggest they underline them. Discuss their findings, and list them on the board. If desired, use the following ideas and questions to help your discussion.

1. The work of God cannot be frustrated or stopped (see D&C 3:1, 3).
• Why do you think the work of God cannot be frustrated or stopped?
• What do the scriptures teach about God that helps us understand how He can prepare for any future event?
• How does knowing that God’s work cannot be stopped help you trust in Him?
2. We should never ignore the revelations of God (see D&C 3:4–7).
• How many times did the Prophet Joseph Smith pray for permission to let Martin Harris take the plates? (Three; see Doctrine and Covenants Student Manual: Religion 324–325, p. 9.)
• Why do you think the Prophet didn’t accept the first answer the Lord gave?
• How do people today “set at naught the counsels of God”? (v. 7). Why do you think they do so?
3. We should trust God and accept His counsel instead of man’s (see D&C 3:6–8).
• How did the Prophet’s concern for Martin Harris get in the way of his fulfilling his duty to God?
• Martin Harris was much older than the Prophet and had done much to help the work of translation. What would be a good way to act if a person you respected asked you to do something contrary to God’s will?
4. We must be careful with those sacred truths that have been entrusted to us (see D&C 3:5, 12).
• What was Joseph Smith entrusted with?
• What are some of the sacred truths and possessions we have been entrusted with that we must guard carefully?
5. We all need to be careful or we may fall prey to Satan’s temptations (see D&C 3:4, 9).
• How is it that someone as great as the Prophet Joseph Smith could do other than what the Lord commanded?
• How do similar temptations come to us?
• How can we gain the strength and power to overcome the temptations of the devil?
• What does Doctrine and Covenants 3:9–10 teach us about God’s mercy?
6. Sin always has consequences (see D&C 3:14).
• What were the consequences Joseph Smith faced because of the lost manuscript?
• What are some of the consequences we face when we sin?
• Do those consequences always come immediately after we sin?
Explain that this experience taught the young prophet many truths, including the importance of relying on the Lord and not fearing man. Joseph Smith said that he adopted the following rule for himself: “When the Lord commands, do it” (History of the Church, 2:170).

For nearly six thousand years, God has held you in reserve

WEDNESDAY3/15/17 Good noontide Brandon, I dropped off your pc at the PO today. That pc had a talk by LTP. It was one of my Best Conference Talks of all time. And it was from your namesake. It was a real pain getting that postcard ready. It took 3 prints. I’m not sure where my brain was. I finished near 7pm and after BobD told me all about his desires to preach to the world / saints sections 127 n 128. I can’t stand listening to him get all mixed up in his intensity to teach me to prepare for the end of the earth, over and over again. So while he was talking I looked up those sections so I could see what they really say. It helped. Some of those verses are long and Dr. Wayne Brickey last year told us that the long ones have complex concepts/ mysteries in many cases. Aha, another chance to unravel the mysteries of the kingdom! Who needs the sealed portion of the BoM? 400 East used to be called flood street. It slopes down in the middle of the road on purpose. It drained the city in big rainstorms /cloud bursts. It goes right by the city park. Believe it or not it was still light at 8pm last night. I could have driven without my headlights. So when I glanced at my car clock while driving down flood street it showed almost 7pm after having left BobD preaching to Debbie. (I was glad she came over so I could escape.) The chocolate chapel on 700 S. has a PoGP class from Dr. Ken Peterson on Tuesday at 7. I hadn’t eaten so I had an internal debate. I felt a little grumpy for having had to WASTE my time fielding Bob’s wild assertions. So to convince myself to go to the class I told myself I did not have to stay for the full 90 minutes. I had all my study materials in my car, so off I went. @ I only stayed an hour. I was the only one to get up and leave early. Hard. @ He continued teaching from Moses 5. Besides taking in ideas and concepts when I attend a class, I also notice teaching techniques of course! There are two basic ways we learn new things. 1) Opposites & 2) Similars.  He used an upside down V to compare opposites. I usually skip over evil in the scriptures. In the past I haven’t wanted to learn or study how evil works. But the scriptures describe evil patterns and plans for a reason. So Lamech, a descendant of Cain also became a Master Mahan. Cain became a Master Mahan and son of perdition. He had seen and knew the Lord Jesus Christ. Lamech says, if Cain is cursed 7 times then I will be cursed 70 times plus 7. No one liked Lamech. Even his two wives left him. Crud what a gross guy! So how did the evil he practiced under Satan (sons of man) compare with the righteousness practiced by the sons of God? The last 2 verses of Chapter 5 tell two practices of the righteous. See if you can read the previous 20 versus to see two comparable practices of the followers of evil. I am giving you a homework assignment!  _____ O0 But just remember, if you try you will be stimulated and spiritually blessed for studying the scriptures. @ So Dr. Ken Peterson came over and introduced himself to me before the class began even though it was after the hour. I was flattered. Thank you Dr. Ken! @ He mentioned working with SWK in the upper room of the temple and him saying how evil and wicked the world has become. He also quoted a BYU address from ETB about how strong spirits would be needed for this concluding episode, the last dispensation. ETB said that strong spirits were reserved and waited 6,000 years to be born in this generation.  When you look at JS and his followers don’t you agree? That poor weak little church! And in their weakness they were asked to sacrifice and go on missions. In their weakness they were asked to sacrifice and build a temple, and then another temple. In their weakness they were asked to move and settle twice in Missouri and once in Illinois and then in SLC!  Would you have to be strong to do that?  For many it was too much. I like to think I am strong in my commitment to the church, but if I had left my homestead to settle in Kirtland and then Jackson County and then Clay County and then Nauvoo I doubt I would have done it. I am too set in my homestead! @ Conference Talks are usually 10-15 minutes long. BYU devotional addresses are often 45 minutes long. @ Dr. Ken invited everyone who wished a copy of ETB’s address to raise their hands. His wife has shrunk the conference talk down so you can keep a copy in your scriptures. The one he shared with us was a tattered old copy he pulled from his scriptures.  I have never kept anything in my scriptures besides my lists of memorized scriptures. But some people do. Many times I have listened to saints in SS pull a special quote they keep in their scriptures that condenses an idea, and share it with the class. I suspect that those quotes are like scripture to them. I enjoy hearing quotes from apostles that have meant something to a fellow saint. They carry more impact than my comments which are often guesses at correct answers. So thanks to the internet and my ability to find things I went and looked up his address and guess what I am going to include in this postcard?  !!!  @ Louis rototilled a portion of my garden yesterday and left me a couple of cherry tomato plants and pepper plants.  What fun!  Now my mind is figuring out how I will design it so I can water easily. :) That was sure a nice gift to discover last night. @~@In His Steps
Ezra Taft Benson Mar 04, 1979
My beloved associates—members and friends of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints:

Sister Benson and I are honored to be in your midst tonight. I pray that the spirit of the Lord will be with us and that I might be an instrument in the Lord’s hands to bless and edify you.

For nearly six thousand years, God has held you in reserve to make your appearance in the final days before the Second Coming of the Lord. Every previous gospel dispensation has drifted into apostasy, but ours will not. True, there will be some individuals who will fall away; but the kingdom of God will remain intact to welcome the return of its head—even Jesus Christ. While our generation will be comparable in wickedness to the days of Noah, when the Lord cleansed the earth by flood, there is a major difference this time. It is that God has saved for the final inning some of his strongest children, who will help bear off the Kingdom triumphantly. And that is where you come in, for you are the generation that must be prepared to meet your God.

All through the ages the prophets have looked down through the corridors of time to our day. Billions of the deceased and those yet to be born have their eyes on us. Make no mistake about it—you are a marked generation. There has never been more expected of the faithful in such a short period of time as there is of us. Never before on the face of this earth have the forces of evil and the forces of good been as well organized. Now is the great day of the devil’s power, with the greatest mass murderers of all time living among us. But now is also the great day of the Lord’s power, with the greatest number ever of priesthood holders on the earth. And the showdown is fast approaching.

Each day the forces of evil and the forces of good pick up new recruits. Each day we personally make many decisions that show where our support will go. The final outcome is certain—the forces of righteousness will finally win. What remains to be seen is where each of us personally, now and in the future, will stand in this fight—and how tall we will stand. Will we be true to our last-days, foreordained mission?

Great battles can make great heroes, but heroes will make great battle. You will never have a better opportunity to be a greater hero in a more crucial battle than in the battle you will face today and in the immediate future. Be warned that some of the greatest battles you will face will be fought within the silent chambers of your own soul. David’s battles in the field against the foe were not as critical as David’s battles in the palace against a lustful eye. We will each find our own battlefield. The tactics that the enemy will use against us will vary from time to time; he will feel after our weak spots. We must be alert to the devil’s devious designs, to the subtle sins and clever compromises as well as the obvious offenses.

Fortunately for us, we have the privilege of fighting under the Lord’s banner. While the devil hates us and seeks to make all men miserable like unto himself (see 2 Nephi 2:27), the Lord instead loves us and seeks for us the fullness of joy which He possesses.

Christ lived on the earth and was subject to all manner of temptation, but He won every battle. He is the most successful warrior that ever walked the earth, and He wants to help us win every battle, be it personal or public. When we fall short, His atonement will cover for us on certain conditions.

Jesus knows that His kingdom will triumph, and He wants you to triumph with it, too. He knows in advance every strategy the enemy will use against you and the Kingdom. He knows your weaknesses and He knows your strengths. By revelation, personal to you, you may discover some of these strengths and weaknesses through a careful and prayerful study of your patriarchal blessing. Through proper prayer you can ask him to reveal to you your weaknesses so that you can amend your life. In the Book of Mormon in Ether, chapter 12, verse 27, the Lord says the following:

If men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. . . . If they humble themselves before me, and have faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them.

God can reveal to you your talents and your strengths so that you will know upon what you can build. Be assured that in all your righteous endeavors you can say, as Paul said in Philippians, chapter 4, verse 13, “I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.” And also be assured, as Paul said in 1 Corinthians, chapter 10, verse 13, that no temptation will befall you but what is common to man and that God will, with each temptation, provide a way to escape.

We follow a perfect leader—not just one who tells us to do what he thinks we should do, but the only one who can say that we should be as He is in everything. In the Book of Mormon, in 3 Nephi, chapter 27, verse 27, the Lord asked the question, “What manner of men ought ye to be?” And then He answered by saying, “Verily I say unto you, even as I am.”

What manner of man was Jesus when He was your age—when He was growing into manhood, when He was personally preparing Himself during those thirty years for His three-year public ministry? Turning to the book of Luke in the New Testament, chapter 2, verse 52, we read these words: “And Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man.”

Here, then, are the four great areas where Jesus grew in personal preparation. Your first thirty years cover the time in your life when most of you will be serving missions, getting your education, dating, getting married, establishing homes, and finding and beginning a career. If we, then, are to follow in His footsteps, we should increase in those same four areas in which He increased. In the Doctrine and Covenants, section 93, verse 13, it states that Jesus “received not of the fullness at first, but continued from grace to grace [not from sin to grace, but from grace to grace] until he received a fullness.” We too should move “from grace to grace” “in wisdom and stature and in favor with God and man.” Let us consider these four areas.

“Jesus Increased in Wisdom”
Wisdom could be considered the proper application of true knowledge. Not all knowledge has the same worth, nor are all truths equally valuable. The truths upon which our eternal salvation rests are the most crucial truths that we must learn. No man is truly educated unless he knows where he came from, why he is here, and where he can expect to go in the next life; unless he can adequately answer the question which Jesus posed: “What think ye of Christ?” The world cannot teach us these things as the Kingdom can. Therefore, the most essential knowledge for you to obtain is the saving knowledge within the gospel and the knowledge of its author—even Jesus Christ. In fact, that eternal life for which we should all be striving—which is the greatest gift that God can give and which is God’s type of life, the life of the great Eternal One—that eternal life comes from knowing our Father in heaven and His Son, our Elder Brother, Jesus Christ. As the scripture in John, chapter 17, verse 3, reads, “This is life eternal, that they might know thee the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom thou hast sent.” We cannot know about God and Jesus without studying about them and then doing their will. This in turn will lead to additional revealed knowledge which, if obeyed, will eventually lead us to further truths. If we keep following this pattern, we will receive further light and joy that will eventually lead us into God’s presence where we, with Him, will have a fullness.

In the Doctrine and Covenants, section 88, verse 118, we are admonished to “seek . . . out of the best books words of wisdom.” Surely these books must first include the scriptures. Next, and alongside them, must be the words of the Presidents of the Church. In the Doctrine and Covenants, section 21, verse 5, the Lord said of the President of the Church, “His word ye shall receive, as if from mine own mouth.” These books make up what has been referred to as “the Lord’s library”—namely the standard works and the various volumes that contain the words of the different Presidents of the Church. Of the latter volumes, that which would be of greatest importance to you would be the words of the current President of the Church, for his words are directed to our day and our needs.

The Lord has also given a special mantle to the apostles, and the significance of their words is pointed out in section 1, verse 14—the Lord’s preface to the Doctrine and Covenants— where he says that those who will not “give heed to the words of the prophets and apostles shall be cut off from among the people.” The writing of other General Authorities should be given consideration also.

While the gospel includes the more crucial saving truths contained within theology, it also includes truth in other branches of learning. The Lord encouraged the early missionaries in the 88th section of the Doctrine and Covenants, verse 79, to be instructed more perfectly in

things both in heaven and in the earth, and under the earth; things which have been, things which are, things which must shortly come to pass; things which are at home, things which are abroad; the wars and the perplexities of the nations, and the judgments which are on the land; and a knowledge also of countries and of kingdoms.

Today, with the abundance of books available, it is the mark of a truly educated man to know what not to read. “Of making many books there is no end” (Ecclesiastes 12:12). Feed only on the best. As John Wesley’s mother counseled him: “Avoid whatever weakens your reason, impairs the tenderness of your conscience, obscures your sense of God, takes off your relish for spiritual things, . . . increases the authority of the body over the mind.”

The fact that a book is old does not necessarily make it of value. The fact that an author wrote one good work does not necessarily mean that all his books are worthy of your time. Do not make your mind a dumping ground for other people’s garbage. It is harder to purge the mind of rotten reading than to purge the body of rotten food, and it is more damaging to the soul.

Most novels and pulp magazines are filled with a lot of rubbish, and most TV and a lot of radio programs are a waste of time, if not corruptors of morals or distorters of truth. The less newspapers have to say of value and of truth, the more pages they seem to take to say it. Usually a few minutes is more than sufficient to read a paper. One must select wisely a source of news; otherwise it would be better to be uninformed than misinformed. The subscribers of some mass magazines and newspapers are ever reading but seldom able to come to a knowledge of the truth in the areas of most vital concern.

As we approach the showdown, it will be increasingly valuable to have vocational skills—to be able to use our hands. The most essential temporal skills and knowledge are to be able to provide food, clothing, and shelter. Increasingly the Lord, through His servants, is trying to get us closer to the soil by raising our own produce.

Let us summarize. The most vital knowledge you can learn is the saving truths of the gospel—the truths that will make the difference in your eternal welfare. The most vital words that you can read are those of the Presidents of the Church—particularly the living prophet—and those of the apostles and prophets. God encourages learning in many areas, and vocational skills will have increasing importance. There is much reading material that is available that is either time-wasting or corrupting. The best yardstick to use in discerning the worth of true knowledge and learning is to go first and foremost to the words of the Lord’s prophets.

“Jesus Increased in . . . Stature”
There is no question that the health of the body affects the spirit, or the Lord would never have revealed the Word of Wisdom. God has never given any temporal commandments—that which affects our stature affects our soul. There are at least four basic areas which make the difference in your health—in your growing in stature.

First: righteousness. Sin debilitates; it affects not only the soul but the body. The scriptures are replete with examples of the physical power that can attend the righteous. On the other hand, unrepented sin can diffuse energy and lead to both mental and physical sickness. Disease, fevers, and unexpected deaths are some of the things that have been directly related to disobedience. Jesus healed a man of a physical malady and then told him in John, chapter 5, verse 14, to “sin no more, lest a worse thing come unto thee.” Galahad said that his strength was as the strength of ten because his heart was pure.

Second: food. To a great extent we are physically what we eat. Most of us are acquainted with some of the prohibitions, such as no tea, coffee, tobacco, or alcohol. What need additional emphasis are the positive aspects—the need for vegetables, fruits, and grains, particularly wheat. In most cases, the closer these can be, when eaten, to their natural state— without overrefinement and processing—the healthier we will be. To a significant degree, we are an overfed and undernourished nation digging an early grave with our teeth, and lacking the energy that could be ours because we overindulge in junk foods. I am grateful to know that on this campus you can get apples from vending machines, that you have in your student center a fine salad bar, and that you produce an excellent loaf of natural whole-grain bread. Keep it up and keep progressing in that direction. We need a generation of young people who, as Daniel, eat in a more healthy manner than to fare on the “king’s meat”—and whose countenances show it (see Daniel 1).

Third: exercise. The body needs the toning up that comes from exercise. Walking in the fresh air can be exhilarating and refreshing. Properly directed running can have some beneficial effects. Simple situps or sporting activity can be helpful.

Fourth: sleep. Adequate early rest is best. In the Doctrine and Covenants, section 88, verse 124, the Lord commands: “Cease to sleep longer than is needful; retire to thy bed early, that ye may not be weary; arise early, that your bodies and your minds may be invigorated.” There are too many enticements to late evening activities. Not only can this weary the body, but a wearied body may be more susceptible to improper activities in the darkness and lateness of the night. Early to bed and early to rise is still good counsel, and a brief nap during the day can be recuperative.

“Jesus Increased . . . in Favor with God”
What are some of the things that would increase our favor with God? There are many, of course. The book of Abraham in the Pearl of Great Price, chapter 3, verse 25, states that one of the purposes of life is to be proved to see if we “will do all things whatsoever the Lord [our] God shall command [us].” In short, we are to learn the will of the Lord and do it. We are to follow the model of Jesus Christ and be like Him. The essential question of life should be the same one that Paul asked in the book of Acts, chapter 9, verse 6, when he said, “Lord, what wilt thou have me do?” God’s will for you can be determined from three sources: (1) the scriptures—particularly the Book of Mormon, of which the Prophet Joseph said, “a man would get nearer to god by abiding by its precepts, than by any other book” (Joseph Smith, History of the Church 4:461)—(2) inspired words from the Lord’s anointed—particularly the presidents of the Church and especially the living one, along with the words of the apostles and prophets (local Church leaders are also entitled to give inspired direction for those over whom they preside)—and (3) the spirit of the Lord.

The world has the light of Christ to help guide it, but we are entitled to that great gift, the gift of the Holy Ghost. For the Holy Ghost to be fully operative we have to keep our channels clear of sin. The clearer our channels, the easier it is to receive God’s message to us; and the more of His messages we receive and put into action, the greater will be our joy. If our channels are not clear of sin, then we may think we have gotten inspiration on a matter when it is really “sin-spiration”—that is, promptings from the devil.

To the end of clearing our channels and keeping them clear, I would admonish all of you to read President Kimball’s book The Miracle of Forgiveness; and the sooner you can read it the greater blessing it will be for you. Other practices that would increase our favor with God would include daily scripture study, along with personal prayers morning, midday, and night. We also need to render service to our Father’s children through the family, the Church, and the country.

God has a timetable—a sequence or season for good things. A mission, when its time has arrived, takes priority over marriage and education. And when one is mature enough and has found the right company, then marriage should not be delayed for education. While all three—mission, marriage, and education—are essential, there is a proper order to follow.

We need more men and women of Christ who will always remember Him, who will keep His commandments which He has given them. The greatest yardstick of success is to see how much your daily walk can be like Christ’s—how closely you can walk each moment in His steps.

“Jesus Increased . . . in Favor with . . . Man”
The greatest roles you can take to bless your fellowmen are to be strong missionaries and to be strong patriarchs and matriarchs—to raise a righteous posterity who will be part of the solutions to the world’s problems and not part of the problems. You have probably heard that the greatest Church work you can perform will be within the walls of your own home. It is also true that no nation is stronger than its homes. For a man, there is no calling as high as that of a righteous patriarch, married in the house of the Lord, presiding over his children. Even the very Elohim has us address Him as “our Father who art in heaven.” For a woman there is no calling as high as that of a righteous mother, married in the House of the Lord, rearing a posterity.

Someone has said that happy is the man who has found his worship, his wife, and his work, and loves all three. Do you realize that during your comparatively young years, you will probably be making three of the most momentous decisions of your life? You will be deciding on the role of the Church or worship in your life, selecting a wife or husband, and—particularly for you men—choosing your life’s work.

All of you can know, if you do not know already, that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is the only true church. All you need to do to gain this knowledge is to carefully read the Book of Mormon and then do what is stated in Moroni, chapter 10, verse 4:

And when ye shall receive these things, I would exhort you that ye would ask God, the Eternal Father, in the name of Christ, if these things are not true; and if ye shall ask with a sincere heart, with real intent, having faith in Christ, he will manifest the truth of it unto you, by the power of the Holy Ghost.

If the Book of Mormon is true—which I testify that it is—then Joseph Smith was a prophet. If Joseph Smith was a prophet, then the church he established, as an instrument in God’s hands, is true—even The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. If the Church is true, then there stands at the head of the Church today a prophet of God.

In addition to finding your worship, you will need to find your wife or husband. This will require careful and prayerful consideration. It would be well to mingle with many good people to have a better understanding of others. It you desire a fine companion, then you should be on a high and wholesome level. One of the best yardsticks for knowing whether a certain person may be best for you is to ask yourself what kind of an influence this person has on you. In their presence do you wish you were better than you are—do you think some of your noblest thoughts—are you encouraged to goodly deeds? If this is so, then that person could be worthy of greater consideration. But if being in their company makes you tend in the opposite direction, you had best leave them.

Young women, you are not required to lower your standards to get a husband. Keep yourselves attractive, maintain high standards, place yourselves in a position to meet worthy men, and be engaged in constructive work. Then, if you are married later than sooner—if you even have to wait until the next life to get a choice man—God will make up the difference to you. Time is numbered only to man. God has your eternal perspective in mind.

And now, so far as your work is concerned: It is divinely ordained what a woman should do, but a man must seek out his work. The divine work of women involves companionship, homemaking, and motherhood. It is well if skills in these three areas can first be learned in the parents’ home and then be supplemented at school if the need or desire presents itself. The first priority for a woman is to prepare herself for her divine and eternal mission, whether she is married soon or late. It is folly to neglect that preparation for education in unrelated fields just to prepare temporarily to earn money. Women, when you are married it is the husband’s role to provide, not yours. Do not sacrifice your preparation for an eternally ordained mission for the temporary expediency of money-making skills that you may or may not use. I do not think it needs to be an “either/or” choice; but if it does, then choose the divine mission preparation. Some women are well prepared for their mission and want to acquire additional skills in other areas; and that is fine, if they so desire. It is simply a case of putting first things first. To paraphrase the Lord, when He was speaking of those who obeyed the lesser law and neglected the weightier matters: these ye might do, but do not leave the other undone (see Matthew 23:23). Some women acquire money-making skills in areas closely related to their divine missions, and the advantages of that approach are plain.

Brethren, it is your role to be the leader in the home. While the wife may be considered the heart of the home, you are the head. You are the provider, and it takes the edge off your manliness when you have the mother of your children also be a provider. What will you choose for a career? What will your work be? It has been said that no one is born into this world whose work is not born with him or her. We bring from our preexistent state various talents and abilities. We strive to find the right wife, and it is our responsibility to strive to find where we can make a contribution to our fellowman—an area where we have some interest and abilities and where we can, at the same time, provide for our own.

I am glad Beethoven found his way into music, Rembrandt into art, Michelangelo into sculpturing, and President David O. McKay into teaching. To find your proper niche and do well at it can bless you, yours, and your fellowmen. If you need help finding your career, it is available: (1) Ponder and pray about it; (2) study closely your patriarchal blessing; (3) consider what you do well; (4) take some vocational and interest tests; and (5) get acquainted with various professions to see what is available.

I understand that you have a fine career counseling center here at BYU with a diversified program that offers help through classes, testing, seminars, a library, and so on. I hope that if you feel the need you will take advantage of these opportunities. How true it is—happy is the man who has found his worship, his wife, and his work, and loves them all.

The world is gradually beating a path to our door to see how we do things. Stick by your righteous guns and you will bless your fellowman. Be right, and then be easy to live with, if possible—but in that order.

My beloved brothers and sisters, “Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man,” and so can you. You are a royal generation. The heavenly grandstands are cheering you on. We are fast coming to the close of this game. The opposition is real and is scoring. But we have scored, we are scoring, and we will score in the future. The Lord is our coach and manager. His team will win, and we can be a valiant part of it if we so desire. Rise up, O youth of Zion! You hardly realize the great divine potential that lies within you. May you all follow your leader, Jesus Christ, and increase mentally, physically, spiritually, and socially, I pray for all of you in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.

Ezra Taft Benson was a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints when this fireside address was given at Brigham Young University on 4 March 1979.